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Criticism, Power, and Validation

12.07.2011 · Posted in Abuse, Advice, Power

If a subordinate gives you negative feedback, it often implies a bigger compliment. It means that people trust you because you conduct yourself with integrity. Otherwise, your subordinates wouldn’t dare to speak up. Good for you. Of course, I would rather be praised than criticized but when somebody over whom you have power is honest ...

Sorry, Mormons, but this is nuts.

The Boston Globe: The Mormon image campaign And here’s my dozen reasons why: (Memo to the Mormon leadership: Diverse teams cause people not to revert to stereotyping.) Plus one for a baker’s dozen. Local Mormons weigh in: I’m a Mormon and I am here in New York and I really wish the church would pick ...

Just for kicks, how long will this clip stay up before it gets pulled?

Ever wonder why it’s OK for Mormons like the Marriotts to profit from porn? Now you know. As someone elsewhere noted: “I think this new PSA from the Mormons is much more helpful than some of their older, more boring stuff.” Views: 16351 ...

® Why the LDS brand matters

03.26.2010 · Posted in Advice, BYU, Mainstreaming, Moving On

General David Petraeus discusses Iraq & Afghanistan war strategy with BYU students: Petraeus began his remarks by listing the Top 10 reasons BYU students make such great soldiers: Number One – They understand how far Iraq has come over the past seven years. In fact, they think that Iraq’s old spot in the “Axis of ...

An Interesting Encounter

01.07.2010 · Posted in Advice, Family, Marriage

Earlier today a young man entered my office seeking my advice…This is not unusual for someone in my line of business. But it is a rare day when someone comes to me, in my capacity as an apostate, seeking advice regarding of all subjects…religion…particularly the Mormon religion. But it happened today. A bit of background: ...

Appearance and Helen Andelin

06.16.2009 · Posted in Advice, Culture, Women

Helen Andelin, author of Fascinating Womanhood recently passed away.  My sympathy to her friends and family.  I’m sure that she had a life and beliefs outside of her work.  I do have definite opinions about her work, which I will discuss below. I definitely disagree with her work and its premise.  The book was supposedly ...

A Story I Never Tell Anyone (conclusion of OH)

04.13.2009 · Posted in Advice

In the morning, I wanted to go talk to Rex again. Fortunately he was available for a chat just as he had been the day before. “Well, it’s official,” I said. “Lynn was right. The girl I like, Andrea, she isn’t interested in me. She’s Joe’s girlfriend now.” Read the rest of the story » ...

Advice from the armchair marriage counselor

05.21.2008 · Posted in Advice, Marriage

Suppose your marriage is afflicted with that everyone’s-talking-about-how-they’re-suffering-in-silence Mormon epidemic know as “your husband’s porn addiction.” Suppose you’re absolutely convinced that that is the problem, and if he won’t stop, then your marriage will be destroyed — nothing can persuade you otherwise. But he can’t seem to stop, or refuses to. Then there are two ...

Mother’s Day Mormon

05.12.2008 · Posted in Advice, Family, Parenting

My brother-in-law is now an ex-mo, but his mother (my mother-in-law) won’t stop pestering him about returning to Mormonism (he’s only been openly out for about 6 months now; he was in the closet for about 6 months before that). He called her yesterday for Mother’s Day and asked her what she wanted. She said, ...

Vote!

02.05.2008 · Posted in Advice, Power

Today, half the nation will select our presidential candidates. Voting in primaries is more important than in the general election because primary results determine the available options. Alternatives, in turn, sometimes determine the outcome. Remember Spencer Kimball’s motto? Do it. Do it right. Do it right now. After two decades of division and gridlock, we ...

Bruce McConkie Was Right!

01.26.2008 · Posted in Advice

Even when I was a happy trooper for Mormonism, Bruce McConkie tended to amuse me. Apostle or not, in light of his statements about evolution and the virgin birth I always viewed him as somebody who had never quite matured to adulthood, a living proof that one can graduate from an American law school while ...