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		<title>By: chanson</title>
		<link>http://latterdaymainstreet.com/2009/10/23/and-so-it-gets-worse-instead-of-better/comment-page-1/#comment-71840</link>
		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 23:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I wouldn’t be surprised if this sign was also vandalized in places outside of the MoCor, and we just don’t know it.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Wouldn&#039;t you know?  It just happened, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2009/10/29/another-atheist-billboard-is-vandalized/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;worse than the last one&lt;/a&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I wouldn’t be surprised if this sign was also vandalized in places outside of the MoCor, and we just don’t know it.</p></blockquote>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t you know?  It just happened, <a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2009/10/29/another-atheist-billboard-is-vandalized/" rel="nofollow">worse than the last one</a>.
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 19:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;it does provide affirmation that it’s not that unthinkable to go your own way.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I agree, and I think this affirmation can help give people the confidence to be open about their non-belief (as well as possibly making it a little less shocking for religious people when friends and family members admit to non-belief).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>it does provide affirmation that it’s not that unthinkable to go your own way.</p></blockquote>
<p>I agree, and I think this affirmation can help give people the confidence to be open about their non-belief (as well as possibly making it a little less shocking for religious people when friends and family members admit to non-belief).
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		<title>By: visitor</title>
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		<dc:creator>visitor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:44:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The fact is, most people are exposed to decent, responsible non-believers all the time.  They just don&#039;t happen to realize it because people assume everyone else is believing and that probably includes a decent number of atheists, agnostics and people on the bubble on their way out of conventional religions.  

In that respect a billboard doesn&#039;t accomplish much because it&#039;s still not identifying those whom people wouldn&#039;t necessarily expect to be non-believers.  And I don&#039;t see non-believers starting to wear T-shirts saying &quot;Look at me.  I&#039;m your non-threatening neighbor and I don&#039;t believe in god.&quot;  &lt;i&gt;Not&lt;/i&gt; the style of I&#039;ve-got-my-beliefs-you&#039;re-welcome-to-yours independent thinkers.  

However (and I think it&#039;s a big &quot;however&quot;), it does provide affirmation that it&#039;s not that unthinkable to go your own way.  And it accomplishes that very nicely, thank you very much, even defaced.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The fact is, most people are exposed to decent, responsible non-believers all the time.  They just don&#8217;t happen to realize it because people assume everyone else is believing and that probably includes a decent number of atheists, agnostics and people on the bubble on their way out of conventional religions.  </p>
<p>In that respect a billboard doesn&#8217;t accomplish much because it&#8217;s still not identifying those whom people wouldn&#8217;t necessarily expect to be non-believers.  And I don&#8217;t see non-believers starting to wear T-shirts saying &#8220;Look at me.  I&#8217;m your non-threatening neighbor and I don&#8217;t believe in god.&#8221;  <i>Not</i> the style of I&#8217;ve-got-my-beliefs-you&#8217;re-welcome-to-yours independent thinkers.  </p>
<p>However (and I think it&#8217;s a big &#8220;however&#8221;), it does provide affirmation that it&#8217;s not that unthinkable to go your own way.  And it accomplishes that very nicely, thank you very much, even defaced.
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Madame Curie -- It&#039;s very possible.  The organization that put this one up said it was the only instance of vandalism they&#039;ve encountered, but they&#039;re not the only group putting up atheist/humanist billboards and bus ads.

Wayne -- That&#039;s very true, and that&#039;s why I think these sorts of public not-directed-at-anyone-in-particular statements shouldn&#039;t be equated with personal interactions.

In the atheist community, there&#039;s a great deal of debate over &quot;accommodation&quot; towards religion.  I feel like showing respect and courtesy towards religious friends and family is reasonable and isn&#039;t the compromising or watering down your own beliefs.

At the same time, I feel like these sorts of public statements (that atheists exist and are human) are helpful.  They move the poles of people&#039;s expectations and create a mutual space where your religious intimates understand that they should be respectful of your differences as well.  Whereas without exposure to non-believer visibility, your religious friends and family might easily mistakenly assume that your different beliefs amount to an admission that you&#039;re some sort of criminal deviant who needs to be &quot;cured.&quot;  Billboards like this have a very real impact in terms of making it easier for non-believers to be honest -- and respectful -- towards their own families.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Madame Curie &#8212; It&#8217;s very possible.  The organization that put this one up said it was the only instance of vandalism they&#8217;ve encountered, but they&#8217;re not the only group putting up atheist/humanist billboards and bus ads.</p>
<p>Wayne &#8212; That&#8217;s very true, and that&#8217;s why I think these sorts of public not-directed-at-anyone-in-particular statements shouldn&#8217;t be equated with personal interactions.</p>
<p>In the atheist community, there&#8217;s a great deal of debate over &#8220;accommodation&#8221; towards religion.  I feel like showing respect and courtesy towards religious friends and family is reasonable and isn&#8217;t the compromising or watering down your own beliefs.</p>
<p>At the same time, I feel like these sorts of public statements (that atheists exist and are human) are helpful.  They move the poles of people&#8217;s expectations and create a mutual space where your religious intimates understand that they should be respectful of your differences as well.  Whereas without exposure to non-believer visibility, your religious friends and family might easily mistakenly assume that your different beliefs amount to an admission that you&#8217;re some sort of criminal deviant who needs to be &#8220;cured.&#8221;  Billboards like this have a very real impact in terms of making it easier for non-believers to be honest &#8212; and respectful &#8212; towards their own families.
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		<title>By: Wayne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wayne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 22:09:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to admit that my gut reaction is:  sure lets be godless but keep it under wraps. On the other hand if I  am talking to my  TBM bil  about religion and society, he will listen to my godless perspective respectfully because he knows that I respect his beliefs.

Respectful dialogue between individuals is much different than a billboard. It is much easier to react rudely when you are dealing with a faceless organization, or a group one knows nothing about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to admit that my gut reaction is:  sure lets be godless but keep it under wraps. On the other hand if I  am talking to my  TBM bil  about religion and society, he will listen to my godless perspective respectfully because he knows that I respect his beliefs.</p>
<p>Respectful dialogue between individuals is much different than a billboard. It is much easier to react rudely when you are dealing with a faceless organization, or a group one knows nothing about.
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		<title>By: Madam Curie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Madam Curie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 21:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wouldn&#039;t be surprised if this sign was also vandalized in places outside of the MoCor, and we just don&#039;t know it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if this sign was also vandalized in places outside of the MoCor, and we just don&#8217;t know it.
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 17:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exactly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly.
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		<title>By: visitor</title>
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		<dc:creator>visitor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 17:12:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, if you think about it, this could be interpreted to be an illustration of the inevitability of random acts of frustration practiced by &lt;i&gt;individuals&lt;/i&gt; on either &quot;side&quot;.  

In that respect, it sorta undercuts Oaks&#039; message that such random acts should be considered the equivalent of the kind of organized suppression the LDS, the Catholic church and the fundamentalist evangelical churches engage in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, if you think about it, this could be interpreted to be an illustration of the inevitability of random acts of frustration practiced by <i>individuals</i> on either &#8220;side&#8221;.  </p>
<p>In that respect, it sorta undercuts Oaks&#8217; message that such random acts should be considered the equivalent of the kind of organized suppression the LDS, the Catholic church and the fundamentalist evangelical churches engage in.
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 14:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wayne -- yep, that&#039;s another possibility.

lol, we don&#039;t seem to be able to work up much outrage over this, huh?  Maybe rogue-speech-through-spraypaint isn&#039;t that big a deal after all.

That said, if anyone really did use the Pro-prop-8 contributor&#039;s map to find donors homes and harass them there -- for the record -- that is beyond inexcusable.  I hope that anyone who may have done this has been chastized harshly by the leaders of the gay rights movement.  We aren&#039;t a terrorist movement like the so-called &quot;pro-life&quot; movement that targets physicians in their homes, and we should not get &lt;i&gt;anywhere near&lt;/i&gt; their criminal tactics.

That said, I think Oaks&#039;s rhetoric is extremely counter-productive if he actually wants to combat harm/harassment of individuals.  The public political protests of the LDS church&#039;s political actions were every bit as peaceful and non-threatening as his political decision to contribute money to anti-gay political campaign.  To conflate legitimate, non-threatening criticism with harassment -- as though they were the same thing -- is a good way to prevent &lt;i&gt;actual harassment&lt;/i&gt; and intimidation (if there was any) from being dealt with.  So I conclude that he&#039;s not nearly as concerned with preventing actual harassment/harm as he is with finding an ad-hominem that he can use to justify dismissing critics.

Also, I&#039;m sorry to keep questioning whether any harassment occurred, but considering that he outright lied about whether his opponents&#039; right to free speech on prop 8 had been questioned, I can&#039;t regard him as a reliable source.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wayne &#8212; yep, that&#8217;s another possibility.</p>
<p>lol, we don&#8217;t seem to be able to work up much outrage over this, huh?  Maybe rogue-speech-through-spraypaint isn&#8217;t that big a deal after all.</p>
<p>That said, if anyone really did use the Pro-prop-8 contributor&#8217;s map to find donors homes and harass them there &#8212; for the record &#8212; that is beyond inexcusable.  I hope that anyone who may have done this has been chastized harshly by the leaders of the gay rights movement.  We aren&#8217;t a terrorist movement like the so-called &#8220;pro-life&#8221; movement that targets physicians in their homes, and we should not get <i>anywhere near</i> their criminal tactics.</p>
<p>That said, I think Oaks&#8217;s rhetoric is extremely counter-productive if he actually wants to combat harm/harassment of individuals.  The public political protests of the LDS church&#8217;s political actions were every bit as peaceful and non-threatening as his political decision to contribute money to anti-gay political campaign.  To conflate legitimate, non-threatening criticism with harassment &#8212; as though they were the same thing &#8212; is a good way to prevent <i>actual harassment</i> and intimidation (if there was any) from being dealt with.  So I conclude that he&#8217;s not nearly as concerned with preventing actual harassment/harm as he is with finding an ad-hominem that he can use to justify dismissing critics.</p>
<p>Also, I&#8217;m sorry to keep questioning whether any harassment occurred, but considering that he outright lied about whether his opponents&#8217; right to free speech on prop 8 had been questioned, I can&#8217;t regard him as a reliable source.
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		<title>By: wayne</title>
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		<dc:creator>wayne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 01:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This could have been spray painted by  someone with a message for God.  If you read it right, it says:  Millions are good, God.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This could have been spray painted by  someone with a message for God.  If you read it right, it says:  Millions are good, God.
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