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		<title>By: Main Street Plaza &#187; Sunday in Outer Blogness: Sunny Day Edition!</title>
		<link>http://latterdaymainstreet.com/2009/10/15/im-rubber-and-youre-glue/comment-page-1/#comment-77395</link>
		<dc:creator>Main Street Plaza &#187; Sunday in Outer Blogness: Sunny Day Edition!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2010 09:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] totally done with all of the righteous indignation I can handle for this week, what with that scary little lecture we had earlier. Fortunately, we&#8217;ve also had a bunch of positive ideas and feel-good [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] totally done with all of the righteous indignation I can handle for this week, what with that scary little lecture we had earlier. Fortunately, we&#8217;ve also had a bunch of positive ideas and feel-good [...]
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		<title>By: Sunday in Outer Blogness: Media Edition! &#124; Main Street Plaza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sunday in Outer Blogness: Media Edition! &#124; Main Street Plaza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 20:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Girl Who participated in an NPR segment about objectivity in Utah media, especially regarding the Oaks [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Girl Who participated in an NPR segment about objectivity in Utah media, especially regarding the Oaks [...]
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 14:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They just keep rolling in!

Here are some more:

Saganist explains that &lt;a href=&quot;http://saganist.blogspot.com/2009/10/dallin-h-oaks-is-wrong-again.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dallin H. Oaks is wrong again&lt;/a&gt;: but not so much in what he preaches as in not practicing it.

Natalie Collins writes &lt;a href=&quot;http://nataliercollins.com/2009/10/16/dear-dallin/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dear Dallin&lt;/a&gt;, and the Urban Koda touches on the speech while &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.urbankoda.com/2009/10/dealing-with-trolls.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dealing with Trolls&lt;/a&gt;.

Then a couple of people have started new discussions building on our free speech topic: &lt;a href=&quot;https://accounts.google.com/ServiceLogin?service=blogger&amp;hl=en&amp;passive=86400&amp;continue=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.blogger.com%2Fblogin.g%3FblogspotURL%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fathornyway.blogspot.com%252F2009%252F10%252Fsweet-baby-space-jesus.html%26zx%3Dfrdcqxc1e2kv&amp;ltmpl=private&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;sweet baby space jesus&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://liberteegalitetrivialite.blogspot.com/2009/10/closer-look-at-dallin-oaks-sinister.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A closer look at Dallin Oaks&#039; sinister speech&lt;/a&gt;.

Enjoy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They just keep rolling in!</p>
<p>Here are some more:</p>
<p>Saganist explains that <a href="http://saganist.blogspot.com/2009/10/dallin-h-oaks-is-wrong-again.html" rel="nofollow">Dallin H. Oaks is wrong again</a>: but not so much in what he preaches as in not practicing it.</p>
<p>Natalie Collins writes <a href="http://nataliercollins.com/2009/10/16/dear-dallin/" rel="nofollow">Dear Dallin</a>, and the Urban Koda touches on the speech while <a href="http://www.urbankoda.com/2009/10/dealing-with-trolls.html" rel="nofollow">Dealing with Trolls</a>.</p>
<p>Then a couple of people have started new discussions building on our free speech topic: <a href="https://accounts.google.com/ServiceLogin?service=blogger&amp;hl=en&amp;passive=86400&amp;continue=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.blogger.com%2Fblogin.g%3FblogspotURL%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fathornyway.blogspot.com%252F2009%252F10%252Fsweet-baby-space-jesus.html%26zx%3Dfrdcqxc1e2kv&amp;ltmpl=private" rel="nofollow">sweet baby space jesus</a> and <a href="http://liberteegalitetrivialite.blogspot.com/2009/10/closer-look-at-dallin-oaks-sinister.html" rel="nofollow">A closer look at Dallin Oaks&#8217; sinister speech</a>.</p>
<p>Enjoy!
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		<title>By: A brave new definition of &#8220;free speech&#8221; &#124; Main Street Plaza</title>
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		<dc:creator>A brave new definition of &#8220;free speech&#8221; &#124; Main Street Plaza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 13:38:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] All of the levity over Mormon being the new black is a bit of a sideshow &#8212; obscuring the meat of what Elder Oaks is proposing: Those who seek to change the foundation of marriage should not be allowed to pretend that those who defend the ancient order are trampling on civil rights. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] All of the levity over Mormon being the new black is a bit of a sideshow &#8212; obscuring the meat of what Elder Oaks is proposing: Those who seek to change the foundation of marriage should not be allowed to pretend that those who defend the ancient order are trampling on civil rights. [...]
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 12:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Troy -- Yeah, and the funny thing is that if they hadn&#039;t gone out of their way to pick (and then escalate) this fight, they&#039;d be in a position to silently &quot;mainstream&quot; on this -- like they&#039;ve done with so many other unpopular beliefs...

Gen. J. C. Christian -- True, that would be quite interesting...

LDChino -- Thanks for the link, quite interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Troy &#8212; Yeah, and the funny thing is that if they hadn&#8217;t gone out of their way to pick (and then escalate) this fight, they&#8217;d be in a position to silently &#8220;mainstream&#8221; on this &#8212; like they&#8217;ve done with so many other unpopular beliefs&#8230;</p>
<p>Gen. J. C. Christian &#8212; True, that would be quite interesting&#8230;</p>
<p>LDChino &#8212; Thanks for the link, quite interesting.
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 12:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, I just noticed one more interesting point in the discourse:

&lt;blockquote&gt;Those who seek to change the foundation of marriage should not be allowed to pretend that those who defend the ancient order are trampling on civil rights.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Scuse me?  Should not be &lt;i&gt;allowed&lt;/i&gt;?  Should not be &lt;i&gt;allowed&lt;/i&gt; to make a point you disagree with?

Personally, I have a very different view of my opponents&#039; rights to free expression.  You can make any right/wrong/intelligent/stupid point you like, as long as I also have the right to counter with my own free speech.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I just noticed one more interesting point in the discourse:</p>
<blockquote><p>Those who seek to change the foundation of marriage should not be allowed to pretend that those who defend the ancient order are trampling on civil rights.</p></blockquote>
<p>Scuse me?  Should not be <i>allowed</i>?  Should not be <i>allowed</i> to make a point you disagree with?</p>
<p>Personally, I have a very different view of my opponents&#8217; rights to free expression.  You can make any right/wrong/intelligent/stupid point you like, as long as I also have the right to counter with my own free speech.
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 11:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alan -- You&#039;re right that he&#039;s turned this into arguing for &quot;the freedom to have defined gender roles&quot;, and unfortunately he&#039;s also arguing for the &quot;freedom&quot; to impose those eternal gender roles on people whose beliefs are different from his.

Saganist -- I know!  For years I&#039;ve debated whether to call this rhetorical move &quot;the &#039;I know you are but what am I?&#039; defense&quot; or the &quot;the &#039;I&#039;m rubber and you&#039;re glue [everything you say bounces off me and sticks to you!]&#039; defense.&quot;  Maybe I should have gone with the former.

I do think they&#039;ve taken up a strategy of &lt;i&gt;deliberate&lt;/i&gt; polarization (to solidify the loyal base of supporters at the expense of alienating everyone else).

Steven B. -- Thanks for the link, that&#039;s an excellent analysis!  The beginning and end bits are a little disrespectful, but the author does a great job of showing -- point by point -- how Oaks is arguing for a mangled new definition of the word &quot;freedom.&quot;:

&lt;blockquote&gt;Oaks’ is making a bald-faced argument that religious believe deserves special treatment, and that simply claiming “It’s my religion” should exempt one’s actions from criticism and examination.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Exactly! LDS leaders have been making this claim ever since the initial bad PR fallout from Prop. 8 started rolling in.  But as (correctly) &lt;a href=&quot;http://dissentinginpart.blogspot.com/2009/10/oaks-speaks-out.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;pointed out by Steve B.&lt;/a&gt;:

&lt;blockquote&gt;Peaceful protests are not anti-democratic. Rather, they are the lifeblood of democracy. The gay rights community chose to exercise its First Amendment rights to express its disagreement with a political position that the LDS Church had taken. &lt;i&gt;That is democracy&lt;/i&gt;. “[F]reedom from retaliation” does not mean freedom from criticism or protest.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I made the same point myself in &lt;a href=&quot;http://latterdaymainstreet.com/2008/11/09/free-expression-basics-and-lds-newsroom-meme/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Free Expression Basics&lt;/a&gt; (and went on to argue that &lt;i&gt;they know it&lt;/i&gt;, and are deliberately creating a rhetorical side-show because they know their arguments are far too weak to win a fair debate).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alan &#8212; You&#8217;re right that he&#8217;s turned this into arguing for &#8220;the freedom to have defined gender roles&#8221;, and unfortunately he&#8217;s also arguing for the &#8220;freedom&#8221; to impose those eternal gender roles on people whose beliefs are different from his.</p>
<p>Saganist &#8212; I know!  For years I&#8217;ve debated whether to call this rhetorical move &#8220;the &#8216;I know you are but what am I?&#8217; defense&#8221; or the &#8220;the &#8216;I&#8217;m rubber and you&#8217;re glue [everything you say bounces off me and sticks to you!]&#8216; defense.&#8221;  Maybe I should have gone with the former.</p>
<p>I do think they&#8217;ve taken up a strategy of <i>deliberate</i> polarization (to solidify the loyal base of supporters at the expense of alienating everyone else).</p>
<p>Steven B. &#8212; Thanks for the link, that&#8217;s an excellent analysis!  The beginning and end bits are a little disrespectful, but the author does a great job of showing &#8212; point by point &#8212; how Oaks is arguing for a mangled new definition of the word &#8220;freedom.&#8221;:</p>
<blockquote><p>Oaks’ is making a bald-faced argument that religious believe deserves special treatment, and that simply claiming “It’s my religion” should exempt one’s actions from criticism and examination.</p></blockquote>
<p>Exactly! LDS leaders have been making this claim ever since the initial bad PR fallout from Prop. 8 started rolling in.  But as (correctly) <a href="http://dissentinginpart.blogspot.com/2009/10/oaks-speaks-out.html" rel="nofollow">pointed out by Steve B.</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Peaceful protests are not anti-democratic. Rather, they are the lifeblood of democracy. The gay rights community chose to exercise its First Amendment rights to express its disagreement with a political position that the LDS Church had taken. <i>That is democracy</i>. “[F]reedom from retaliation” does not mean freedom from criticism or protest.</p></blockquote>
<p>I made the same point myself in <a href="http://latterdaymainstreet.com/2008/11/09/free-expression-basics-and-lds-newsroom-meme/" rel="nofollow">Free Expression Basics</a> (and went on to argue that <i>they know it</i>, and are deliberately creating a rhetorical side-show because they know their arguments are far too weak to win a fair debate).
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		<title>By: LdChino</title>
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		<dc:creator>LdChino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 08:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you&#039;ve got a second, please watch the video available at this link:

http://www.wcsh6.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=110092&amp;catid=2

The caricature that Oaks is trying to sell will appear more distorted by the day as an ever-increasing number of folks get a chance to see and hear from the real deal, from the real people working to establish marriage equality in this great country.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ve got a second, please watch the video available at this link:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.wcsh6.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=110092&#038;catid=2" rel="nofollow">http://www.wcsh6.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=110092&#038;catid=2</a></p>
<p>The caricature that Oaks is trying to sell will appear more distorted by the day as an ever-increasing number of folks get a chance to see and hear from the real deal, from the real people working to establish marriage equality in this great country.
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		<title>By: Gen. JC Christian, patriot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gen. JC Christian, patriot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 07:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder what Sister Gladys Knight thinks about this. Someone should ask her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder what Sister Gladys Knight thinks about this. Someone should ask her.
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		<title>By: Troy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Troy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 03:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a real PR nightmare for the church. In this age of internet and fast news coverage, they&#039;re digging themselves deeper and deeper. It&#039;s hard to imagine a sudden revelation from god after all this. That would surely be the last straw for any serious member. Two &quot;get out of jail free&quot; cards in 30 years? I don&#039;t think so. 

What an idiot of an organization.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a real PR nightmare for the church. In this age of internet and fast news coverage, they&#8217;re digging themselves deeper and deeper. It&#8217;s hard to imagine a sudden revelation from god after all this. That would surely be the last straw for any serious member. Two &#8220;get out of jail free&#8221; cards in 30 years? I don&#8217;t think so. </p>
<p>What an idiot of an organization.
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